How to tell a girl you just want head
There are few better feelings in the world than seeing a girl lustily looking up at you while on her knees or in your lap and seeing and feeling your member in her mouth; and then grabbing her hair and moving her head around your lap as you sit back and enjoy the oh-so-wonderful ride. Here we go. It does not matter how many times I say it, you simply cannot up your sexual experiences with girls unless you make yourself a sexy man. You have to fully internalize that women love sex and that they will only fully open themselves up to men who understand that fact. Let me give you an example. A couple of weeks ago I was out on the West Coast with a good friend of mine.SEE VIDEO BY TOPIC: StaySolidRocky - Party Girl (Lyrics) "lil mama a party girl she just wanna have fun too"
how do i tell this girl i only want head?
There are few better feelings in the world than seeing a girl lustily looking up at you while on her knees or in your lap and seeing and feeling your member in her mouth; and then grabbing her hair and moving her head around your lap as you sit back and enjoy the oh-so-wonderful ride.
Here we go. It does not matter how many times I say it, you simply cannot up your sexual experiences with girls unless you make yourself a sexy man. You have to fully internalize that women love sex and that they will only fully open themselves up to men who understand that fact. Let me give you an example. A couple of weeks ago I was out on the West Coast with a good friend of mine. We were out at a bar and we met up with one of his old female friends from his high school days.
The conversation was pretty lively, and given that fact, it inevitably turned to sexual topics. Now, most guys would be taken aback by such a remark or would even get very uncomfortable or awkward. But not the sexual man. My friend and I are both sexual men and simply took it in stride by offering our opinions. I told her that I had done some research on the matter when I heard a couple of my other female friends talking about it some years ago.
And just for your information: semen contains spermine, which is composed of many antioxidants and proteins that are good for replenishing skin and preventing wrinkles. That being said, it is also full of testosterone, which is the main cause of acne. So definitely a double-edged sword on that front. And then we finished discussing the topic and moved on to other topics — both sexual and nonsexual. And that is how it should go if you are sexy man.
Talking about a sexual topic should be as normal to you as discussing the weather. And once it is — the sky is the limit. If she laughs it off or just gives you a straight answer, then you know you are in a good place. Au contraire. If you want to increase the frequency in which you get a blow job, you should hang out with people — if possible — who can already do so with a decently high level of frequency.
Chase has often mentioned that his progress was really supercharged when he surrounded himself with naturals whom he could learn from. And any aspect of seduction: approaching, rapport, getting the number, and yes, even the ability to get a blow job, can be quickly improved by being around people who are already good. But having people who are already successful in this area will allow you to become a great suck-cess as well ;.
Just like sex, sometimes you will be moments away from getting a blow job when everything falls apart at the last second. But you have to remember: the girl owes you nothing. Just because you got within minutes of feeling her lips around your private parts does not mean that she has to follow through if she does not want to.
So no matter how much work you put in, realize that sometimes things will go wrong. Sometimes there will be some actual resistance. Just shake it off, splash yourself with some cold water, laugh a little, and move on with your life.
It happens. But this mindset is also important for not being desperate either. If you try to maintain a sense of outcome independence then it will only increase your likelihood of success. To many women, sex is a big deal. Yes, they are servicing you, but a lot of girls legitimately enjoy a good sucking session.
Some girls will even give a blow job without thinking twice about it. And then they get a blow job. Whenever I go out with a large group of guys, there is inevitably one guy who, at the end of the night, starts bellyaching about some girl he could have had. I do not understand why she did not come home with me! It is a fictitious space where people can completely unhinge their inhibitions without any consequences and then walk back out into the real world as if nothing had happened.
And as soon as a girl crosses that threshold with you, then you suddenly become a real human being. And then she has to start thinking about the implications of her actions and her deeper desires. Most girls just go out, dance a little bit — or a lot — and then go home feeling really good that a lot of guys flirted with them and that they made out with a few or more.
Most men think that this looseness of women only applies to making out. What if I told you that the only thing you need to get a blow job from a girl in a bar is a moderate to high level of attraction and a semi-private setting? Well that is what I am telling you right now. But the thing is, if you pull a girl somewhere where she can give you a blow job, and you smoothly escalate, then you can get a blow job. You just have to be the leader and make it happen. And if you read this site, you will learn nearly all of the facets of how to build attraction.
There are many ways to build attraction. And I mean many ways. But if you set the sexual frame with a girl and make her play with her hair and lust after you, then the road to getting a blow job becomes that much smoother. Parties are some of the best places to get a blow job. It is really easy to pull a girl into a dark room or even a bathroom in order to do that deed. And if you need it to be done quickly, you can also go that route, and then the two of you can continue on with the good times.
I know many people have done this fairly regularly during their party outings. Another way to execute this feat at a party is to play a childhood game. There is nothing like a good game of seven minutes in Heaven or truth or dare — especially combined with alcohol — to get things flowing when you want to get frisky with a cute girl.
Also, retreats or outings in the woods are some of the best times to get a blow job. I remember back when I was in college I used to go on a yearly retreat with a couple of groups that I was a part of.
And inevitably, someone would always return with the story of their sexual hijinks. There is just something about the rare event combined with the seclusion of nature that makes getting a blow job in these situations that much easier. So take advantage of the secrecy and excitement whenever you can. When getting together with a woman, men are often highly concerned about their performance.
They want to be able to please a woman in bed, and not put in a disappointing performance because of lack of skill, inventiveness, passion , or by prematurely ejaculating. They worry about the fact that they may not be able to please a man in bed or that he may not be fully attracted to them.
And outside of penetrative sex, they worry about the fact that the man may not get off or come close to doing so if they give him a blow job. Most women are actually not very good at it. Some are much too light and tentative. Some do far too much pulling and tugging. Some are much too sloppy.
And because of this fact, many girls are actually self-conscious about their blow job skills. So if you enter a sexual situation with a girl you want to see repeatedly, you can do one of two things:. The latter option is much more preferable. Sometimes it is the case that the man is enjoying it. But I would say often times he is not enjoying in nearly as much as he could be. But if he does not say anything, then that is his own fault.
But women are out there to please their men. So if you instruct her on what you find pleasurable and how she can give the best blow job possible, then of course she will follow those instructions and aim to make you happy. I first learned this with a girl I dated many years ago. So she told me to tell her the kinds of things that I liked.
And when I told her, she started doing those things. She started doing them every time. And before I knew it, she was giving some fantastic blow jobs whenever we hooked up. The first time I got a simply amazing blow job occurred about 6 years ago. It happened with one of the first girls I had ever hooked up with, but years after our first encounter. Our first encounter was sloppy and awkward because neither of us knew what they were doing. And then the years passed, and she was able to get some practice as we both went off on our own singular adventures.
And then when we reencountered each other… it was unreal. At that point I had had sex with a few girls and I had been able to get a blow job from a handful more.
But… it was like getting a blow job for the first time. My mind went a little blank, and she was able to get me to finish in under a minute. And then, after I recovered, she did it again. I had no defenses. It just felt too good. I still have such a vivid memory of it even today. And since then, there have been many, many more sexual encounters. And certain girls have come close, but none have been able to top that truly incredible experience.
How to Get a Blow Job from Any Girl You Want (It’s Easy)
How come something one gender so desperately wants is often unpleasant or downright appalling for the other gender to provide? Dozens of possible explanations exist, yet most of them seem to focus on women, because obviously they are the ones with the problem, right? In fact, a closer look paints a picture where men are equally to blame for the unsatisfactory experience or complete lack of fellatio in the relationship. Read on! This move is the relationship equivalent to aerobatics and all our hats are off to you, if you pull it off.
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